Myths and Facts

The following Myths and Facts about Same-Sex Intimate Partner Violence were adapted from Georgetown University's Health Education Services. The complete list and discussion can be found at:

Myths and Facts  

Myth #1: The abuse that takes place in GLBT relationships is mutual.

       Fact: Abuse that is "mutual" is rare in GLBT relationships. 

Myth #2: GLBT intimate partner violence is sexual behavior, like S&M. 

       Fact: Intimate partner violence is not sexual behavior. It is not liked.

Myth #3: Victims exaggerate the abuse; they would leave if it was bad.

       Fact: Most victims actually minimize abuse.

Myth #4: Women are not violent and do not batter their partners.

       Fact: Lesbians are just as capable of violence as anyone else.

Myth #5: Men find it easier to leave abusive situations than women do.

       Fact: It is equally difficult for men and women to leave.